It’s an activity where you don’t see the time go by when you’re doing it. Looking at your watch doesn’t occur to you for a moment, because you feel so good when you’re doing it… Here it’s important to focus on your personal motivation, something that irresistibly attracts you, in GO TO mode rather than AWAY FROM!
What I often see, especially with young women, are people who have given so much (for work, for children, for family…) that they don’t even know what they want for themselves. So it’s really important to set a course, because “there’s no fair wind for him who doesn’t know where he’s going”, as Seneca said.